I've been dating this guy for 3 years now and about July of 07' we split up just to see if we were meant to be together. Eventually we got back with each other Jan 0f 08', but while we were split up he got another woman pregnant. She is due in July and he is in MO at basic training but he wants to with me and we've decided to start our own family when he gets home next month, and she is already on that drama tip, with trying to control him. He was living with me before he left in March and he will come home to me and she and I have meet and I'm not a drama type person but I will if I have to be and I don't want that to happen I would love to except their child in our lives like he excepted my 10 year old daughter when we met 3 years ago, so what do I do?