Ok, kids are 14, 17 and 23... Mom's been divorced over a year. Found a man that loves her dearly, just made mom aware that kid's were demanding too much. They don't want her to date or marry until they are all grown?? What should she do? Delay her life? Or marry the man she loves and hope the children will somehow cope?
This is sad... She's in love and the kids think he's bad for her. I met him... nice guy.. loves her.don't want trouble... but loves her

Why does she have to marry him... 4 more years and everyone is happy! ;)

"They don't want her to date or marry until they are all grown"
I think she should tell them she is an adult and she will date as she sees fit. She needs to take their needs (not wants) into account but she can't let them tell her how to live her life.