My sons mother and I broke up when she was still pregnant she denied me all contact with him until I took her to court, she keeps me so iscolated from him I don't even feel like his father I se him about 4 days a month and my job makes it that much harder I hate the fact that he has to be bouncing from home to home and he cries every time he has to come by me I don't know what to do I hate seeing him like that I am thinking of giving up my parential rights to him I think he would better off without me and be more stable.. please give advice if you have it

You do know that you will still have to pay child support even if you sign over your rights?
What are your visitations according to the court? 4 times a month doesn't sound very fair to me...

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Originally Posted by startover22

You do know that you will still have to pay child support even if you sign over your rights?
What are your visitations according to the court? 4 times a month doesn't sound very fair to me.....

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The court order states every other wknd so I get him sat. morning and he has to be back Sunday at 1

Saturday morning to Sunday evening sounds better... that is hardly even 24 straight hours... seriously, you need to fight for more! You have to, he wants you too, she doesn't get to make all the rules, you both made this child. Is she hard to talk to? I just wonder what the heck happened to make her feel as if you shouldn't see him? I wonder why you would sign an agreement like this? Did you have a lwyer?