I'm still in high school living with a parent. My boyfriend lives 30 min away and he just got out of school. I use to see him every weekend. My parent has kemo every other Saturday which means I can only see him every other weekend. When I do see him my parent watches us the whole time. We only get to be alone evryonce in a while. I want to keep our relationship going but its hard because he works everyday but on Saturday so he comes over every Saturday. We have been dateing 7 months and we are starting to fight more because we don't see each other much. I'm afraid we are going to end up breaking up. What shoud I do?

This may not be exactly what you want to hear but you're young and the chances of this being the guy you marry isn't likely. Don't put yourself through more stress than you need to. Be totally honest with him and get his opinion about what is going on. Evaluate the situation and do what is in your best interest. Don't blame your parents for watching you two. It's their job to take care of you. It can get annoying but trust that they have your best interest at heart.

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Originally Posted by candygirl098

we are starting to fight more because we dont see each other much.

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You could also start to fight more if you see each other too much. In other words, make sure you understand WHY you two are fighting more. I'm guessing it's not because of how often or not you see each other.

Plus, today there's texting and IMing and email and, of course, the phone... even your own personal cell phone that you don't have hanging on the kitchen wall and have to share with the rest of the family.

Really think about it. Why are you two starting to fight more?

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we are starting to fight more because we don't see each other much. I'm afraid we are going to end up breaking up. What shoud I do?

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Either accept the fact that's the way it is, or move on, and date someone who can give you more time together. Even adults have trouble with the distance relationships.