I have been having issues with my live-in boyfriend. We have lived together for about 3 years now and it's always an issue- his sex drive is low (VERY LOW). He was constantly rejecting me and or would come up with excuses to get out of having sex. He said he would stop the rejections and making excuses- but it still happens. It doesn't happen as often as it did, but it happens. Sometimes, he offers to just get me off with a toy, but I take offense to that. Last night, I wanted to have sex- he didn't. We ended up arguing and he told me something that just blew my mind. He told me he gets frustrated having sex with me because I take too long to have an orgasm during intercouse. Mind you, there is no forplay, no kissing, no touching, no nothing. I explained to him women don't orgasm so easily... I was/am hurt. He tells me I am reading too much into it, but how else can I take what he told me? What should do? How should I feel? I have never been told this and it's just... ugh!!