Originally Posted by HistorianChick
Sweetie, every successful relationship HAS to have two basic components: trust and communication.
If you can't/don't/won't trust him and/or communicate your insecurities with him, you will not (or ever) have a successful relationship with this man.
You have to trust him with as much trust as you expect to receive. Has he given you a reason to distrust him? Do you know that he is chatting with other women or do you just suspect that he is? Have you told him that you are uncomfortable with his yahoo messenger "addiction"? Does he know that you are insecure about this??
Communicate your insecurities. This is the only way that you will turn your insecurities into trust.
I wish you the best!