Well, OK, She is pretty much my best friend, We went out before and have had sex before, but when our relationship ended, we became really good friends still, Well anyway, she came up with the idea of becoming a kind of more then friends situation for a bit, it went well for awhile and then went sour after awhile when some old feelings started stirring up, well time passes and she went in and out of another relationship kind of fast and when that ended, she just went and screwed the first guy she saw. And is currently making plans for more guys on her "schedule". I'm kind of disturbed by this whole situation and how its gone lately, but I'm not really sure what to do about it

I would suggest you stay out of it if she is going to be promiscuous.

You really think I shouldn't do anything?

There is nothing you can do, you can tell them you disapprove and that this is not proper behavior, but in the end we can not control anyone and make them do anything

You need to tell her what she is doing is NOT right, ask her if she wants a baby with some guy she saw in a coffee shop. Please don't let it alone. I'm asking you as a girl that has to deal with knowing she was not wanted when her mother got pregnant. Its an awful thing for a child to go through. Ask her why she wants to ruin an inoccent child's life. Please do not listen to these idiots telling you to dissmiss it. Be a good person and help her.

Tell her your concerns but avoid telling her you think she's acting like a whore, of course. Ask her what's going on with her that would lead to such a big change in her. Tell her the real concerns you have - her health, her safety if she goes home with the wrong guy, how this will impact her self-esteem down the line, getting her feelings hurt, leading someone else on and hurting their feelings and so on...

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Yes, I know, and I still got a really dumb reddie on it the other day from a person who didn't like my reply on another thread of hers. Go figure.

I'll balance that reddie for you.