Hi! Never been on this before until today.. but I really need some advice!I've been with a guy for 2 years straight, and about 6 years on and off! And basically we had been getting on ups and downs as usual, but he strted a really stupid fight the other day over nothing by text. It was the day I finished my dissertation for college. He was texting telling me to fxxk off etc. and that he was only with me for what he wanted etc. so I got upset and was telling him I loved him etc etc and asking him to meet with me and he was sending back texts saying just leave me alone, don't cother coming near me and all. It was very mean. I went out last night in the city and I text him a few times and he just replied saying for me to just get over it etc. I didn't enjoy my night at all, not that I was fighting with him it was because I do love him... It was meant to be a happy time for me finishing college etc. and then today I text and was saying that I would like to see him. Ive sent a few messages today I haven't heard any thing back. I just feel so upset. I feel like every time we have an argurment I have to apologise event though its never me who starts them. I j don't want to loose him and I just feel so lost... can any one help? Thanks.
** thanks everybody for the advice**
I suppose yes the right thing to do is nc... but why is that so hard?and why am I afraid to loose him of I do that...
And also its just soooo annoying the way we haven't had face to face contact... evern when we were arguing? why would someone not want to talk at all... I think talking about ut would really help :( but even with any type of argument he will not 'talk' about it... which is the total opposite to me, because I think saying how you feel makes all the difference...