Hi, I have a friend that just broke up with her boyfriend a three weeks ago and she is usually sad and doesn't want to do anything besides being in her house and by herself, she was with her boyfrined for a year and one month. The only thing is that her ex boyfriend send my friend a valentine's day greeting card and I don't know what is going on, she is also confused she waits for more e-mails from him but he hasn't written to her. For weeks, she checks every time her e-mail and sometimes I think that she is like obssesed with him. The first week of her break up she hardly ever slept and ate, I have seen that she doesn't care about school that much any more. Sometimes when she crys and gets really angry and doesn't understand why was the reason that he broke up with her, she comes over to my house and makes me go with her to the mall. When we are in the mall she starts flirting with guys and then says that she doesn't need him and that she will show someday what he lost. I kind of get happy when she flirts and talks to other guys but then when all that happens she starts saying what have I done, why was I flirting with those guys and I still love my ex. And then she goes back to her depression. There are times when she feels like going to parties and having fun and there are other days when she just wants to stay home alone. Her parents are worried of her and they often ask her what's wrong with her and she doesn't want to tell them that she broke up with her boyfriend because she's not allowed, so now what am I suppose to do? What should I do? Please help I don't to see my friend like that. Thank you, china.
