I broke up with my girlfriend and we have a child. WE have ever lived together but have been operating under joint custody of our one year old with joint visitation. Now we are splitting up and she is trying to back track on joint custody saying its not healthy for the child. WE had set up out parenting plan with the help of a parent coordinatr/child psychologist. Wher can I get research or info to back me up and support my position as a custodial parent