Today I received a book from my girlfriend that broke up with me after 2 years and being engaged. She will not talk or see me but she sends me a book today. The book is called " its called a breakup because its broken" does anyone have a sugestion of a book to send her?? Obviously she sent it as a smack in the face for me to learn to treat her better. What book can I send her back?

Don't send anything back, don't add fuel to the fire. She is hoping to get a rise out of you my friend, resist the game of tit for tat. It will save yourself aggrevation

My man romefalls, is that no stupid on her part?

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Originally Posted by miller3

Obviously she sent it as a smack in the face for me to learn to treat her better. What book can i send her back?

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If she broke up with you I doubt it was for you to learn to treat her better or even to treat another girl better, but just simply a smack in the face.
I wouldn't stoop to smacking her back cause it will only 'prove' to her why she felt the need to break up with you.
Send her a nice thank you card and simply say thank you for the book I am learning so much already.
Then you might have her curiosity up and that is better than getting a smack back at her.

It is, but she is hoping for contact so she can shoot you down. If you give in, it will only delay your recovery and you have come too far to go back. Be the bigger man, read the book and send it back with a note simply thanking her for the book. Nothing more, nothing less

She sent to make it clear again that its over. Don't send her anything. Don't acknowledge it. Just leave her alone. Her actions are speaking volumes that she no longer wants anything to do with the relationship but I don't think you're getting it.

Leave her alone, just that simple.

You sell that book on eBay or half.com!

Sound to me, she is a handful!