What do you do when you have been with a guy for 5 years and you know he has cheated,alls you hear is rumors,and no matter what he denies everything.When I try to leave him he beggs for me back.And swears on everything that he is not cheating.Ive givven this guy years and years of my life and have been totally committed.I am going crazy.He has brought out the worse in me.Giving me anxiety and major panic attacks.He can't even tell the truth about simple ,his whole life is a lie.He lies over stuff you wouldn't even have to lie about.He hurts me so bad,when I do flipp out cause I am so stressed and upset,he turns it alll on me and tells me I am psycho.I am sooo damn comfused and I don't know what the hell to do.

Stop giving in and move on, you deserve better! You are worth it!! He is just using you as a constant, someone he can manipulate.

He lies to you because he knows in the end you will forgive him. He cheats on you because he knows you will accept it. How can you let a guy like this, who is not worth it, have so much control over you. If you loved yourself you would not allow this and the question is not why does he do the things do you because you can't control none of his actions, but do you accept this? If you stay with him you will only be stressed up all the time but if you leave you will be saving yourself and hopefully work on yourself next time make a choice when choosing a mate.

The choice is yours!

This is not hard at all. You take a long break without him in your life. By long, I mean very long. Do not talk to him at all, and the confusion will end.