I said no to this really nice guy when I was 19;cos, I was not ready for a relationship then.but I really liked him; still do. We met only once eversince and I told him although I said no to you then, I really liked u... he simply said that he likes the way he is now.. and it may be a good thing I did, by saying no. He has had 2 girlfriends from the time he asked me out and I had one. We started talking online again couple of months ago(after 6 years).. (we already live in 2 countries)... I want to make this work this time, but I don't want to sound too needy..