I have 3 insurance policey and I'm filing banrupty ,can they take that from my wife when I die, thank you

After the bankrutpcy is final, it is final. If there is cash value in the policy, you may have to declare the value in the policy ( not death benefit but the cash value) if they are term policies they have no bearing on it.

After the bankruptcy is final, that is it it is final.

Welcome to AMHD. In what state do you reside? Do you have an attorney?