My boyfriend recently broke up because he was too busy but I still like him a lot and so does he he still cares a lot about me.. it's just that he has a weird way of showing it though he's shy... like our class together he barely talks to me.. or at lunch we walk and then he just like walks away and smiles am like... and my friend told him she's losing feelings for you because she feels like your messing with her head do you actually care about her?. he says yes he does.. so I really don't know.. and before he asked me out he used to text me all the timeee and call me.. but right when he got me it changed he never texted... he texted like once a day and I don't know everything changed but I want is him back I don't know when its going happen again but I feel like he thinks I am wipped?? :mad: which I am not I just want some attention from him is that a lot to ask?. so he thinks he should play around with me.. and like before he asked me out he thought I would say no I asked him why he said because he thought I am above his level I would never date him.. but now its like am nothing... PLZZZZZZZZZ HELPPPP:confused: :confused:

If you want the same attention you got from him while he was "courting you", you have to make him go back to courting you. Break off your bf/gf status but let him know you still like him a WHOLE LOT.

If he truly feels about you the way you think he does, he should resume trying to "get you back". Once that starts, you've got him. Just don't ever give in fully again or let him "catch you" completely or his interest may start to wane again.

You're both young, and right now the real fun for him is probably in the chase. Remember that, and make the chase fun. When you're older and he gets a little more grounded, maybe you can give the full-bore bf/gf thing a try again.

Good luck.

Well my friend was in the same situacion... her boyfriend said he loved her but never gave her any attention. When they broke up she decided to play his own game. She would ignore him and woulnt even give him any mind. Apparently sum1 told him that she was going to start dating other guys.. and that got to him.. u see not until he saw that he could lose her did he realized how much he loved her. After that he started calling and texting od.. so dats my advise don't make yourself 2 available to the point that he knows he has you and can't lose u! good luck

Aw you guys are the best I will try not to give him full attention which I have to admit did a lot because I did not know what to do I just wanted some back but I will show him lesss.. but at the same time he will know I like him but I won't pay that much attention to him so that he comes to realize he wants me and starts texting and calling once again:P

Anymore advice anyone? Lol