All right, so last August I got the best boyfriend I could ever ask for... but I never see him. The last date we went on was last October!! Now I realize I like three other guys A lot!! Can any body tell me what to do?:eek:

Tell him you like him a lot but your lonely and would like to go out with a few people and not be exclusive.

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Originally Posted by turtlegirl15

Alright, so last August i got the best boyfriend i could ever ask for... but i never see him. the last date we went on was last October!!!! now i realize i like three other guys ALOT!!!! can any body tell me what to do?:eek:

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<chuckle> I think there is a LOT of info missing in THIS story. Hon, you don't have a boyfriend if you haven't done bf/gf things in 7 months. You have a guy you like a lot who gave you attention 7 months ago! That's it.

And you liking a bunch of other boys just underlines the truth of your reality, you are a single girl. Pick one of those other boys at a time and go for it. Much more constructive, I'd say.

Just my opinion, but when young, it's really better not to be tied down to one, certain person as though that is the one with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life. People have so many things to learn, plan, do and change when they are young. Everyone should have the freedom to be able to do that - to carve out a niche for themselves as individuals, then if desired, to find a certain person with whom they might make some permanent plans for the longer future. When I was young, I dated a lot of women and most of the women I went out with dated a lot of other men also. It pays to shop around...

I agree. Sometimes the biggest mistake can be prematurely committing just to keep things level. Things can be level in dating as well.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Just my opinion, but when young, it's really better not to be tied down to one, certain person as though that is the one with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life. People have so many things to learn, plan, do and change when they are young. Everyone should have the freedom to be able to do that - to carve out a niche for themselves as individuals, then if desired, to find a certain person with whom they might make some permanent plans for the longer future. When I was young, I dated a lot of women and most of the women I went out with dated a lot of other men also. It pays to shop around...

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How old are you?

If you have stated he is the best boy friend ever...

Why would you even be considering other options?

It really just depends on your feeling for him and if you can take not seeing him I would talk to him, really talk to him! Like express all the feelings you have but make sure he can tell your serious. If you don't feel better then Id date other people! Just a suggestion!

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

<chuckle> I think there is a LOT of info missing in THIS story. Hon, you don't have a boyfriend if you haven't done bf/gf things in 7 months. You have a guy you like a lot who gave you attention 7 months ago! That's it.

And you liking a bunch of other boys just underlines the truth of your reality, you are a single girl. Go ahead and pick one of those other boys at a time and go for it. Much more constructive, I'd say.

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From the mind of Turtlegirl15: we have talked on the phone a few times

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Originally Posted by tigerlilly3

It really just depends on your feeling for him and if you can take not seeing him I would talk to him, really talk to him! Like express all the feelings you have but make sure he can tell your serious. If you dont feel better then Id date other people! Just a suggestion!

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Thank you very much:) I just might do that:D

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you??

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I am 15... check my name:D :D :p

Just wanted to be sure and not just assume. I doubt you'd be looking at other guys if this so called boyfriend was around to take care of his business. I will Assume you talk, and its long distance, but I think your wasting time with him, and could have much more fun with someone you can actually see, and have fun with.