I had the best relationship of my life with this one girl.
Six months have gone by and my Ex-girlfriend of two years just contacted me through an online gaming service Xbox Live(exactly like an instant messenger).

She said, "Nothing's changed. I have been thinking about you lately and was wondering how you were doing. Have your mom and her finace picked a date yet?"

I thought we were done talking because our relationship ended on bad terms and SHE said she Never wanted to talk to me again and to have a nice life.

The relationship ended when she left me for another girl (I am a guy) and said she was a lesbian, I lost it, got drunk and called the first person to answer their phone(her mom) and told her that her daughter was gay, terrible move I know.

I later found out she didn't end up dating the other girl from a mutual friend. The mutual friend also informed me that she 'never wanted to be with me again and would be my friend but I screwed that up' and 'didn't love me or want to hurt me anymore'.
We Instant message the same people and all "conferance" chat in the same room but she keeps showing up in my chat room(thru the Xbox) and talking to everyone but me. She gets on when I do and gets off right after me according to our online friends. I sent her a friend request to her new screen name and she accepted it. After that I asked her how she was and she didn't reply to me.

Why would she try to talk with me now?

As I said in your other post, I think she might be after you for the money.

However, since you went to the trouble of starting a new thread and making no mention of the money, I will say that:

Maybe she wants you back and feels guilty and doesn't want to come right out and say it because she's the one who dumped you for another woman and is afraid you might not take her back.

And if you do get back with her, watch your pockets.

I responded on the other post - be careful.

After a while, women tend to remember only the good things... hence you see women going back to the bad boy all the time... they forget the abuse, bad behavior, mean-ness, rudeness.

Hi,
It's been two years? You sure you want to start this up again?
It's your decision, but I really feel you can find someone who is meant just for you. Best of luck.

Fred - re-read the post before giving advice. They been broke for 6 months - dated for 2 years.

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Originally Posted by dudeneedsadvice

I had the best relationship of my life with this one girl.
Six months have gone by and my Ex-girlfriend of two years just contacted me thru an online gaming service Xbox Live(exactly like an instant messenger).

She said, "Nothing's changed. I have been thinking about you lately and was wondering how you were doing. Have your mom and her finace picked a date yet?"

I thought we were done talking because our relationship ended on bad terms and SHE said she Never wanted to talk to me again and to have a nice life.

The relationship ended when she left me for another girl (I am a guy) and said she was a lesbian, I lost it, got drunk and called the first person to answer their phone(her mom) and told her that her daughter was gay, terrible move I know.

I later found out she didn't end up dating the other girl from a mutual friend. The mutual friend also informed me that she 'never wanted to be with me again and would be my friend but I screwed that up' and 'didn't love me or want to hurt me anymore'.
We Instant message the same people and all "conferance" chat in the same room but she keeps showing up in my chat room(thru the Xbox) and talking to everyone but me. She gets on when I do and gets off right after me according to our online friends. I sent her a friend request to her new screen name and she accepted it. After that I asked her how she was and she didnt reply to me.

Why would she try to talk with me now?

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Maybe she was only wondering how you were doing... some people can still be friends even after a dirty break up... unless she contacts you again, disregard her and any rumors that you might come across... she might also feel guilty about how things ended... be leerey.