Both my husband and I both thought about separating a couple months ago and it never happened. I myself can't look at him sexually anymore just the thought of having intercourse with him makes me sick. I have not wanted to be with him in the same bed for over a year. I would rather sleep in my oldest son's room than in the same bed as him.
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What has come to you not feeling sexually attracted to your husband?

He is just not attractive to me anymore. He is a hypochondriac and with our young son being around him and hearing him constantly saying he is sick, makes me wonder if our son will grow up that way.

Someone anyone help me figure out whether I should seperrate from him before it gets worse. I have MS and he uses my disease against me and to his advantage against me. He has the insurance so if I leave he throws that I won't be able to get my meds for my MS anymore.

What attracted you to him when you first got married?

So he's got a problem? So what? We all do. No one is perfect. Has he been working on his problem? Is he trying to get help?

What he has is a mental disorder and no your youngest son will not get it from just being around him *** plus that has nothing to do with you not being attracted to husband, seuxal urges and things are normally separate.

Is your husband getting treatment for his disorder ?

I would like you to come and be honest to what the real problems are, since this obvously is not the real issue.

But if you were in love and this is the worst, marriage counseling can help bring the spark back.

You need to tell your sons that it is not healthy to be always claiming you are sick. Teach them to not be like your husband. If they follow his example they could grow up using 'illnesses' as excuses to get out of things. Tell your husband that he needs to grow up and set a good example to them. Tell him that he needs to go get a complete check up and then get counseling.
Is the insurance through his company or what that you can not call and get access to it if you left?