Marriage probles with husband
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have 2 beautiful children togeter we are only 25.
I love my husband with all my heart but I don't think he loves me the same.
He goes to work full time and then comes home and goes straight into the garage and on the weekends he is hanging out with buddy, in the garage or at his mom and dads house helping them. He can never spend time with his family here, his kids importantly.
Also, when he gets into a bad mood at work he takes it out on us and when the kids try to sit next to him or give him love he pushes them away and tells them to go to there rooms.
I can't even go out once a month to my BUNCO game because when I get home, they are not fed, not have been changed, in bed all night, or gotten into something and gotten introuble for it, he doesn't watch them.
What do I do, I told him we need counceling but he refuses to go,I tried talking to him and he ignores me, now my 4 year old daughter is being rebilious and a bad child, her pre-school therphis said it is family problems and I know it is her father not showing her love and attention. What do I do and how can I get him to love us and show us attention before I divorse him??