Well Im not usually the type to turn to the internet for answers but I'm at a loss and don't know what to do any more and would rather take some advice from others that really don't know me and can't judge me! I have been married 2 years and were together 7 well he cheated on me when I was 9 months pregnant and then ended up finding him on dating sights and such.. I was so hurt.. well I ended up meeting this really osem guy not some one I would usually go for because he's a little older then me I am 23 he is 36... He looks GREAT! Well from the start he told me he was not looking for any kind of relationship he is in the middle of a divorce and I am an emotional wreck to be in any kind of anything serious when Im still kind of with my husband well any hoo we have been hooking up the past 3 months I see him about 3 times a week and everyday at work.. No one knows about our secret! :P But I am starting to like him a lot more then planned.. Hes great and we do more then just hook up we go out we watch movies and we talk! Its great but he told me his intentions before I don't want to get hurt... How can I tell if he's really likes me or should I just keep it fun? Thanks a bunch!