I have been in a relationship for four month now, I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is nearly 17. We have not yet had sex and when I try to talk about it I just feel as though she tries to change the subject. Obviously I want to start having sex with her. I love my girlfriend more than anything but just recently I feel as though I am starting 2 have bad vibes about our relationship. Sometimes I feel as though it is not going anywhere, and I I am starting to get bored of her what should I do?

The thing you have to ask yourself is what do you want from this relationship?

I understand considering your age that sex is important to you and maybe you see that as a way of showing your love to her. I think your girlfirend is not ready for that maybe she sees other ways of showing her love. Or it could be the fear that once you have sex with her you will dump her... it is a common thing though.

I do not believe that you love your girlfriend more than anything because the only thing that would satisfy you is to have sex with her. You are already getting bored of her that means you don't really have things to talk about or share interests. The only thing you are focusing on is to have sex with her and Im sure she is not!

You have to talk to each other and be honest to each other and yourself.
Having a relationship is not only about having sex!