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  • Apr 27, 2008, 03:42 PM
    Mel9988
    Im at a loss with this Pregnancy.
    I have had a normal cycle for the past 3 months now and I think I am Pregnant.. I have a few symptoms but am totally unsure. I have taken 2 home test in the past month and they both came back negative.. I haven't started my period at all... I am at a loss.. PLEASE HELP!
  • Apr 27, 2008, 04:22 PM
    Homegirl 50
    How late are you for your period? Has there been a change in your diet, life situation? There are a number of things that could cause your cycle to be late. If are unsure, go the doctor.
  • Apr 27, 2008, 11:30 PM
    Mel9988
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50
    How late are you for your period? Has there been a change in your diet, life situation? There are a number of things that could cause your cycle to be late. If are unsure, go the the doctor.




    Im like a week late.. to be honest I have been eating more for the past few days now... Well my life situation yes, the "baby" daddy said he needed his alone time and he loves me but doesn't want to be with me now.. that type thing..
  • Apr 28, 2008, 07:17 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Well you could be stressed, and with that situation, a pregnancy now would not be ideal. Were you using protection, why are you thinking you're pregnant? It could be you're stressed out and a lot of people eat when they are stressed.
  • Apr 28, 2008, 08:59 AM
    Mel9988
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50
    Well you could be stressed, and with that situation, a pregnancy now would not be ideal. Were you using protection, why are you thinking you're pregnant? It could be you're stressed out and a lot of people eat when they are stressed.



    I am stressed.. and to be honest you right.. a baby isn't ideal at this point in time... yes I wore protection but the condom broke :( I am not a big eater so, when you say people eat because they are stressed I don't.. I eat when I am hungry or have time to sit down and eat.. lol I got the thought from when I am a week late and I haven't been before, and I started getting all these weird pains in my stomach, lower back was hurting and like I was tired a lot.. I am starting to slowly think I am not pregnant... so I have to wait to have the cash to go to a doctor.. Thanks so much for the help thus far, its nice to talk to some one who listens...
  • Apr 28, 2008, 09:03 AM
    Alty
    Honey, wait another week and if you haven't gotten your period do another hpt with morning urine. If it comes back negative then go to the doctor for a blood test. Good Luck.
  • Apr 28, 2008, 10:57 AM
    Mel9988
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    Honey, wait another week and if you haven't gotten your period do another hpt with morning urine. If it comes back negative then go to the doctor for a blood test. Good Luck.




    Thank you... I am going to wait another week.. My mom said the same thing.. I'm just so young to be having kids, and if you read my responses the daddy is young and really doesn't want one either.. so I am at a rock and a hard place.. lol it sux, but thanks again!
  • Apr 28, 2008, 01:06 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I wish you the best dear. If you need to vent, I'm here
  • Apr 28, 2008, 01:27 PM
    kp2171
    all above posts are right...

    stress and diet can throw off a cycle, as can pregnancy and many other things.

    if you aren't eating well... well, stop it. =) at least take a multivitamin, and try to get exercise... the overall health of your body can help with regularity, though its no guarantee.

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