Is this a good sign that I am moving on?
I have been trying for such a long time to get over my ex. She ended things just over one year ago, I started NC 8 months ago. I have not been in touch with her since. I told her I was starting NC at the time and she should only contact me if she wanted to talk about us. I have not heard from her.
I still think about her on a daily basis, but have had good periods when those thoughts have been pretty brief. At the anniversary of the split a couple of months ago, she seemed to be on my mind a whole lot more (for obvious reasons).
I have been out dating quite a few times. I was even seeing someone for a month or so, we both decided it wasn't right (nothing to do with my ex).
My thoughts seem to be shifting a lot more these past few weeks. In fact, yesterday, I thought about her first thing in the morning, then she did not cross my mind at all for most of the day. When that occurred to me I was quite pleased with myself!
Then, even better, I had a date last night. Very nice girl, we got on well, I will give her a ring at the weekend and see if she wants to go out again.
But, I realised, after the date ended, that the place we had the date, was the same place me and my ex met at!! In fact, we were sat at the very same table, and no thoughts of my ex crossed my mind for the whole time!
How can I continue along these positive lines!?