My boyfriend use to always show affection now after a minor break up he said he wants to be with me but he says before he never really liked to kiss but now he does not want to do it at all or hold hands or hug.Does he feel different or is he just not a affectionate guy?

He's on the defensive. The break up has caused some trust issues to occur, which will have to be rebuilt over time.

What was minor to you may have been a lot more serious to him. Talk and listen.

Get out of the house this is the first sign of a abusive relationship this is the warrning that many other girls across the country and all over the world over look.

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Originally Posted by religousgirl

get out of the house this is the first sign of a abusive relationship this is the warrning that many other girls across the country and all over the world over look.

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How does not showing affection translate into abuse? He's not beating her up, he's holding back after a break up.