let me tell you a story from the past...
about 9 months ago I was dating this girl for two years evrything was awesome and no arguments or fights it was going smooth ,so I thought! Oneday she called me explaining she has to see me.. we met up and that's when she started to cry telling me she wants to breakup telling me she wants to have fun without me, oh man did my world come crashing down.. I started to panic searching for answers that didn't exist basically I went insane cause I didn't know how to control myself.
ill tell you guys one thing ,for everyone that goes through this it isn't easy that's for sure but the way I see it is the whole "downfall" or experience is a disease and a form of depression.its how you want it to move on... thats when your will power comes into play and how fast it can fight it off.its like when your sick you do anything to get better,right?. trust me boys and girls no person out there is worth putting yourself confidence or self esteem down..
what I did was simple... dont call the person if you still feel uncomfortable and if you do see them somewhere be calm you can say hi or choose to ignore them (remember its all about you and not them)they do look like idiots especially around there friends lol.keep your mind busy and most importantly have fun!!
I mean you will have a few stumbles on the road but that only means your on the road to recovery .you never know you might end up being friends with that person or probably something more or better yet just a memory a thought in your mind that may feel to be just a dream... so always look forward for the next day always keep your head up and if that X wants to be selfish or whatever the reason may be ,so be it YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THAT!!
