So I have this guy in my life and he's really cool. We've been together off and on for a year now and the last time he broke my heart which was about a month ago I had no idea it was coming, things between us have gotten a lot better since then and we both feel as if we are closer than before. Our relationship is very healthy mentally and physically. I could tell him just about aything and trust him with it. I defanately love him, no question about it, but this past few weeks have been different. I feel as if I'm growing apart from the idea of being with him, when I'm not with him. But when I'm with him I just feel that bond and don't ever want to let him go, but I just wonder what it would be like if we were to see other people.im having these mixed feeling and need help right away! :confused:

I have had the same feelings from time to time and I have been in a relationship for 12 years on and off. But I think it's natural to have these feelings. Do you really love him? Are you truly happy? Ask yourself these questions.

It is so human to wonder, and fantasize about what if's. Nothing wrong or unnatural about that. When we cross those boundaries though, is when we start all kinds of real life troubles. So dream about Brad Pitt all you want, just don't run after him in real life. (if he comes by in his limo, your on your own... )