Has anyone ever thought that it was your true love that slipped away?
Ive been in several relationships. Some long term and some short. Some women said they were in love with me after a few months of dating and scared me away. I couldn't understand it. Other relationships were long term and niether of us fell deeply in love and it didn't last. It always seems one sided. It always seems like when there is love, one person moves faster than the other and someone gets hurt.
A few relationships have ended because I wasn't aggressive enough and they felt that I really didn't care or didn't want to be with them. Others have left because I moved too fast.
I thought I found my real love a few months ago. It started great. As a short time moved past she was gone and now I'm hurting really bad. She said I scared her away.
It's ripping me apart because I know that I blew it. How can I prevent this from happening again? I thought the communication was OK. Maybe not.
It all seems like a high wire act. If my feelings are strong for someone, I can't hide it.
The feeling in the pit of my stomach says it's very real.