Ask Me Help Desk - I want my soulmate back

My ex girl still wants to be my friend and I have attempted to hang out with her or whatever but every time we only hang out for like 30 minutes to an hour at the most.I just want to spend more time ,Oh did I mention she is in another relationship right now,but she always talks trash about the other guy.Im just confused,the day she left me ,it was right when we woke up one morning from the night before that she was wanting sex from me and I told her I was too tired,anyway the next morning she told me she was going out to eat with her mom and that she would be right back,she smiled,kissed me, told me she loved me and I didn't hear from her for 3 days when she came to pick her stuff up.We still keep in touch and hang out but I want more,what do I do,I think she wants me back but every time I try to hint towards anything it just blows up in my face and she overemphasizes being her best friend,I want more though,help

You might want to be more but it is obvious she does not. She is your ex girlfriend. It is hard being best friends with an ex, but you need to realize that she has other interests in mind, in my opinion there is more to this then meets the eye. If you know what I mean?

It is time that you except the fact that she has moved on. I understand that you used the term soulmate. Many people, can have different definations of soulmates. I do believe there is more then one possible soulmate.

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I think she wants me back but every time I try to hint towards anything it just blows up in my face and she overemphasizes being her best friend,I want more though,help

Do you really think she cares what you want? No way, and its time you realized that she likes you, but not enough to have you as a b/f. She may trash her new b/f, but guess what? She is still with him. Disappear from her life and move on, buddy.

My wife tricked me... OK made me see my own feelings. I was like your exgirlfriend and would not commit to a relationship, so she stopped coming over, stopped answering my calls or was "to busy to talk right now" and by all accounts was not moved by anything that was going on with me. Drove me crazy and after about 2 weeks I had to start a relationship back up to spend time with her. We have been married 7 years this Oct. I love her... the manipulative b I t c h.

I was with a girl for 3 years and I thought she was my soul mate. I loved this girl more then anything or anyone else in my life! She told me that she loved me the same. In fact this girl spent 8 years trying to get me. She and I were married to other people but she wanted me. Finally after getting divorced from my ex wife and she getting the same from her husband we were together. So for 3 years I was head over heels in love with her. 3 days after Christmas this year she came home from work, and told me she didn't want me anymore. She is now with someone else living with him and pregnant with his child. My head is still spinning and I want this hurt to go away, but it never does. It's been almost 6 months and I still think about her every minute of every day. How the hell does someone spend all that time trying to get somebody, then after so soon dumps him? My world is devastated and I will never get anyone else like her. I am so alone and I just don't want to deal with this anymore. I am so alone. I want you back my angel, you promised to never leave. You swore on it. I want you back, please come back to me.