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  • Apr 21, 2008, 01:32 PM
    Cheerbabe09
    Is he datable?
    So I'm sure you read my last question on here... so here's another. If I'm really going to try to move on, there's a guy that likes me... should I give him a shot or be single and work on myself for now? This guy is like my best friend... and I don't want to screw anything up.
  • Apr 21, 2008, 01:49 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    OK, no I did not and many others may not have read your past posts.

    But you need to first be sure of yourself and not be depending on someone else. So if you are over the other person, content with being on your own, then you are ready to date. Don't just start using another person as a crutch to get over another person.
  • Apr 21, 2008, 02:15 PM
    HistorianChick
    I agree with Fr... Work on you.

    A rule of thumb for relationships:

    You have to be completely one before you can be completely two. You have to know who you are, what you enjoy, your dreams, your wishes, your personality, your strengths and weaknesses, your self before you can honestly start a relationship with someone else.

    Keep working on you - you're doing well... :)
  • Apr 21, 2008, 03:16 PM
    JBeaucaire
    If you have to ask the question, err on the side of caution. Work on you.
  • Apr 21, 2008, 03:21 PM
    bigbird213
    I agree with the above postings, especially since you have a friendly history with this person. That would make it all the more painful if things went South.

    Best of luck.
  • Apr 22, 2008, 11:18 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    This guy is like my best friend... and I don't want to screw anything up.
    If your not sure, then its best to not make any changes, that may affect the friendship.
  • Apr 22, 2008, 12:11 PM
    beenaroundtheblock
    As a junior in High School Please work on you, you'll have time to work on relationships a little later in life. Like after College.

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