I recently started sexual relationship with my 19 year old virgin girlfriend. She did't see any blood during first four intercources and I was using condoms all four times. When we did intercourse for fifth time and without condom, she started bleeding during intercourse. I also saw the blood on my penis when I was cleaning myself at that time. Her bleeding last for 2 days. I inquired her about the periods but her date is still 2 weeks away. Is this bleeding due to hymen breaking or there is some other reason? Why she did not bleed when we did intercouse for first 4 times with condoms? Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks

Could be because the condom provided enough lubrication so it wasn't irritating the sensitive tissue. Now, that you didn't use a condom could be she wasn't lubricated enough. I would suggest using KY jelly next time to make sure it doesn't happen again. This isn't unusual.

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Originally Posted by robok

I recently started sexual relationship with my 19 year old virgin gf. She did't see any blood during first four intercources and i was using condoms all four times. When we did intercourse for fifth time and without condom, she started bleeding during intercourse. I also saw the blood on my penis when i was cleaning myself at that time. Her bleeding last for 2 days. I inquired her about the periods but her date is still 2 weeks away. Is this bleeding due to hymen breaking or there is some other reason? why she did not bleed when we did intercouse for first 4 times with condoms? Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks

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Like Tickle said, could have been just from some irritation. Many women will not bleed their first time of having sex... the hymen can be broken prior for a number of reasons besides sex. Not realizing this can cause much discord for some couples as some see it as proof of virginity, but it's not necessarily the case.
Keep in mind, if she was about 2 weeks from her next period, she may have been in a pretty fertile period, some women bleed a bit at the time of ovulation as well, and having unprotected sex during this time increases the possibility of pregnancy.

Thanks for the nice & quick response.

R.K