I'm upsested with this girl I really like her but she likes me and another boy.I asked her out in front of my friend and her friend is that bad because she said yes.the next day her friend called me and said she likes the other boy.she flirted with me on web blushes when I speak to her but she always shows she likes and miss another boy,she puts it on the web,and wrote it on a wall in front of me.her bro said she still likes me.I told her I love her 30min after we were bf@gf because I had to go home is that bad

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asked her out in front of my friend and her friend is that bad because she said yes

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This is confusing and I really don't know what you mean.

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but the next day her friend called me and said its over

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You mean her friend broke this date she had with you?

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she always shows she likes and misses another boy she puts it on the web.. and writes it on walls in front of me

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Now that I understand, she has other interest, and may not be ready for you. I would have to back off as she doesn't seem interested in what you want at this time. Maybe you could explain this better for me as its confusing.

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Originally Posted by bronxkid

im upsested with this girl i really like her but she likes me and another boy.I asked her out in front of my friend and her friend is that bad because she said yes.the next day her friend called me n said she likes the other boy.she flirted with me on web blushes when i speak to her but she always shows she likes and miss another boy,she puts it on the web,and wrote it on a wall in front of me.her bro said she still likes me.i told her i luv her 30min after we were bf@gf because i had to go home is that bad

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just know that sometimes a girl wants two things at once. Shes stuck between two good guys and right now she can't make up her mind.
just wait it out and if she can't make up her mind or seems like shes messing with your feelings then its time to move on but give her some time ok

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I told her I love her 30min after we were bf@gf because I had to go home is that bad

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What did I miss here, and when did that happen? Asking someone out is very different from them being a couple.

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Originally Posted by bronxkid

im upsested with this girl i really like her but she likes me and another boy.I asked her out in front of my friend and her friend is that bad because she said yes.the next day her friend called me n said she likes the other boy.she flirted with me on web blushes when i speak to her but she always shows she likes and miss another boy,she puts it on the web,and wrote it on a wall in front of me.her bro said she still likes me.i told her i luv her 30min after we were bf@gf because i had to go home is that bad

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Well first off don't ever... tell a girl you love them when you first start going out it make things werid I am 14 and a girl so believe me on this... she is trying to make you jealouse don't let it bother you flirt with other girls to show her you don't care and don't act like you like her just act like her friend and when she starts talking about the other dude be like cool or I hope you work out or something shot and sweet until then I know its going to be hard hun but you gatta move on believe me it will bother her wayyy more than it will you just don't let it bother you she knows it dose so she's going to play off your emotions...

Commenting on the previous answer, making her jealous isn't always the way to go. For some of us it just ticks us off and makes us want to hate you even if we love you too. Just give her some room to breathe and be her friend. I beileve that's all you really can do at the moment. YOu can't force her hand. If you could, it would be called YOUR hand.