We were in love three years ago. She is with someone else now (rather keep it short). I passed her on the road and she was crying in the car. I also know from a mutual friend the she wants to get married and he doesn't. She still calls once in awhile to see how I am doing, but very little communication in the last 3 yrs. My gut tells me this isn't going to last and that she should be with me. What can I say or do? If anything? I really want to open up to her because I feel that she is staying with him just to feel secure.

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Originally Posted by stevenj967

We were in love three years ago. She is with someone else now (rather keep it short). I passed her on the road and she was crying in the car. I also know from a mutual friend the she wants to get married and he doesn't. She still calls once in awhile to see how I am doing, but very little communication in the last 3 yrs. My gut tells me this isn't going to last and that she should be with me. What can i say or do? If anything? I really want to open up to her bcz I feel that she is staying with him just to feel secure.

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You should let her know how you feel. All she can say is no, but you never know. She may surprise you and feels the same way.