I need advice on wedding attire for me and my fiancé. I am 5'8, slender and blonde. He is 5'7, stocky and red-headed. Will wearing a white tuxedo on him make him look too chunky? What style of dress can I wear that won't make me look so tall next to him? What about shoes for me? We are in our mid-40's and I don't wish to wear white. Help!

Black definitely is a more slimming color, so I suggest that for him. As for you, go with Ivory or white with maybe red accents or some color to it, but the "poofier" your dress is, the shorter you will look... nothing slender it needs some volume to it