:confused: so yea, I'm a 16 year old girl.. I've been sexually active for 2 years with my boyfriend. But I can't seem to orgasm during sex or when I masturbate by myself - I never have been able to. Recently I've been able to climax when my boyfriend fingers me quite quickly (within 10 min.) the only other way I can, I discovered when I was young - by humping the bed.. :( its starting to get in the way of our relationship.. and its making him feel like he's not doing something right. Sometimes I feel like I'm almost there, and then.. it just goes away. Is there something wrong with me? Could it be because I was sexually abused by my grandfather when I was little? Please help.. I'd appreciate any ideas.

I think that maybe you should try all different ways, and when you think your going to orgasm don't stop keep going until you do. And if not then maybe you should go to the doctor.

I'm sorry but I can't support or give advice to a 16 year old who is having sex.

There is a very little percentage of women who do orgasm during sex.