I met this guy 5 month ago in a trip... I started liking him... we continued our friendship even after returning back to our hometown... we often meet & spend time together... usually talk & sms to each other... I love him but I am not sure about his feelings... how can I know about his feelings or win his heart??

How old are you? How often do you see each other? How far apart are you?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you? How often do you see each other? How far apart are you?

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Well I am 20 years old... we go out once in a fortnight... everyday we talk over phone and SMSs are there... & I know that he likes me... but I can't understand if it s just as a friend or more than that... would you help me out with this??

5 months is still getting to know one another, and I would say if he is calling you on a regular basis, he has interest. Way to soon, to be planning long term, or anything along those lines. Just go slow, and enjoy the getting to know each other phase, and be patient. With guys, action speak much more than words, so don't get to curious about what is, or isn't said, and start wondering what's ahead. Go with the flow. This is learning, and having fun doing the learning time.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

5 months is still getting to know one another, and I would say if he is calling you on a regular basis, he has interest. Way to soon, to be planning long term, or anything along those lines. Just go slow, and enjoy the getting to know each other phase, and be patient. With guys, action speak much more than words, so don't get to curious about what is, or isn't said, and start wondering whats ahead. Go with the flow. This is learning, and having fun doing the learning time.

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You said "With guys, action speak much more than words"... could you please tell me what kind of action you are talking about... & how to understand what is going in his mind...

I think he just means that guys are much more hesitant to SAY how they feel. If he likes you more than a friend, he will show you, don't worry about it, just take things slow. Good luck!

Just take it slow, and pay attention. See what he does, how he treats you, but don't have sex until you know him very well. Those intense feelings also mean different things to men and women. Sex is not a commitment to us guys in general, and will change the dynamics of a budding relationship, faster than anything else. Hence my advice to go slow.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Just take it slow, and pay attention. See what he does, how he treats you, but don't have sex until you know him very well. Those intense feelings also mean different things to men and women. Sex is not a commitment to us guys in general, and will change the dynamics of a budding relationship, faster than anything else. Hence my advice to go slow.

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I am not going to have sex with unless & until I know him properly and this relationship have a future... but I hope it does well as I really love him... any ways thanks for the advice... also write to me if you have any other advice about this... :)