OK so I think this would be best spot to post my girlfriend just told me that she went to the doc they took ex rays on her back and found a lump on her spine that they think is cuzed by stress I really would like to know more about it that's all the info I got please someone help me out on this one

Something sure doesn't sound right to me here, although I'm not a health care professional. I'm sure you will get some answers from the experts.

May I just ask the reason your girlfriend went for x-rays to begin with? That may help a bit.

she was having really bad headacks and went to the doctors and I guess he order the x-rays

Does your girlfriend do a lot of heavy lifting?

Yes it can be caused by stress but all you can do is be there for her let her know that tell her you love her and tell her you will be there for her no matter what because if it was caused by stress then you don't want to put her through anymore stress just worry about your relationship but help her along the way don't leave her and be there for her every minuite and let her know that, show your effection and love. I will pray for you tonight and I wish you my best wishes




Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is
Our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most... We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
Permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
- Marianne Williamson, American author and lecturer

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Originally Posted by pleasehelpme101

yes it can be caused by stress but all you can do is be there for her let her know that tell her you love her and tell her you will be there for her no matter what because if it was caused by stress then you dont want to put her through anymore stress just worry about your relationship but help her along the way dont leave her and be there for her every minuite and let her know that, show your effection and love. i will pray for you tonight and i wish you my best wishes




Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is
our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most...We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
- Marianne Williamson, American author and lecturer

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That was a very kind and thoughtful answer. May I ask how your girlfriend is doing? I said a prayer for the both of you also. Could you maybe let us know on your thread? Just concerned!

Me and my girlfriend are getting along very nicely really no problems over what happened so yeah its helped me knowing that I can put my counseling into action I was a student counselor at my high school and they said I should take it to a proffession and I'm thinking about it I just want to help people when I help people it helps me he yeah thanxs a lot for asking how we are doing and we are doing really good thanks!