Ex Girlfriend won't stop bothering me
Hey guys, its been a while since I have posted in here. From the last time I posted in here, My girl and I have been having issue. Now that girl has become my ex-friend, and won't stop bothering me. (Just to refresh what I posted in here before, when she and I first dated, she cheated on me within the first 6 months of our relationship and I choose to forgive her) *SORRY AGAIN ITS SO LONG, JUST A LOT TO VENT!*
Let me explain from the beginning, Towards the beginning of this year, I voiced out that I didn't like how one of her guy friends was giving her a lot of attention, and after I talk to her, she kind of gives me the cold shoulder for a day or two. Once I was able to talk with her again, she said that we don't really communicate/talk. And I only communicate with her when I don't like how a guy is treating her. (According to her, I have communication problems because I can't randomly talk about anything with her).
Obviously, she is upset at the situation, and she asks for time to herself and think if she wants to continue our relationship, which I don't mind. Because I know everyone needs their own space to think. So I told her I won't talk with her online, call her or keep in touch with her in any way, so I won't influence her decision. I told her she could take as much time as she needs,
During that time, she calls me and messages me online seeing how I am feeling and asks me how I feel about the situation, which I told her, I will respect any decision she makes and I am willing to try and work it out.
2 days pass by, and she calls me to see if I want to meet up in person, And I said what for? She tells me to make things easier, So I obviously knew what her answer was going to be, I told her no. Lets just get it over with on the phone, she explains to me that I haven't changed much in my communication over the past year we have been together and she doesn't see me able to change if we ever got married. So we spend literally 3 hrs on the phone breaking up and saying our good byes and hang up. (This happened almost 2 months ago)
Since then, she has been calling me at random times and messaging me online talking about our old relationship and how she screwed it up. And I keep telling that she will be fine and not to worry (I said we should try and be friends). It got to the point were I told her that its probably best we are friends, because that way we will not disappoint each other anymore. She texts me at random times saying she is sorry and how I truly loved and cared about her and she misses that from me.
I tell her so many times that I don't want to talk about our past and I refuse meeting up with her in person (don't really want to suck myself into that) She has called me at times were she is crying and telling me that she messed up so bad. I try to comfort her the best I can, but I told her that I don't feel like dating anyone for a while. I am being honest, because I missed being single, (was in this relationship for 2 years).
I just need some advise guys, should I blocked her completely and just not pick up any of her calls?