Im 19 years old, and I never dated in my life; I always get rejected by women, and I want to make that a stop, by knowing what to do when I approach women, what kind of pickup lines should I say, and when is the right time to ask for her phone number; and knowing what to say in your first move.

The more you can be yourself and just have a conversation the better most girls hate 'pick up' lines unless maybe they are really original.

never use a pick up line... and phone number ? Whenever you feel like it .but don't rush it... ^^

just be yourself buddy... girls will come along...

just don't be clingy and needy.. girls hate that

Hello my name is... would you like to have... ( lunch, coffee, soda) with me.

Dating is also often a numbers game, if you ask 10 people out this week a couple will most likely meet you to get to know you. After you date a few then as you get to know each other, you will find if a more seroius relationship will grow.

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Originally Posted by claydogg

Im 19 years old, and I never dated in my life; I always get rejected by women, and I want to make that a stop, by knowing what to do when I approach women, what kind of pickup lines should I say, and when is the right time to ask for her phone number; and knowing what to say in your first move.

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Clay,
I would like to introduce myself, Jennifer, 32, married w/3 kids. I have read your posts and something tells me you need more than the answers you get here. One being hairless not only is hurting you mentally but is hurting you by the way people treat and look at you. You mention low self esteem. There are more people in this world who prey on others to make themselves feel better and yes, you are letting them. In no way am I talking down to you when I say that. But there is so much more going on with you than what you post here. You need to find the answers to the questions you ask, but are you asking ?'s hoping to hear a different answer? I would really like to talk to you more. I am not a predator, bully, or any better than you or anyone else. I just feel you need someone to talk to who will listen to you for who you are and not judge you. Feel free to contact me if you need my ears to hear you and honest responses.

It starts with confidence, and being able to handle rejection. When rejection affects your confidence, then you won't even try, so get the confidence going by being with those you know, and situations you can handle, and gradually expand the circle to include new people, and new places.