I am seeing a married man which we new for at least eight years. Know he use too like me in high school and I never was interested. In him well one night we both winded up at a club too which neither one of us should have been there. We for someone reason noticed each other and it has been on and poppin know for 21/2 months. Know and still strong we have the greatest sex and often use the word love, but I am married and separated infect we got married to our spoused two weeks apart. I am thinking this was fate while I look for a new and better guy to keep my mind off him, but I can't my husband and I are not going to resolve things he's hurt me too much. This guy cares about me I am no dummy I know what could happen and don't believe married men leave their wives but I really dig this guy and trust what he says he hangs out with me and everything, I believe he tries to get caught sometimes I am so crazy about him he often asks me why did'nt I do this years ago he said we might not have married the people were with we never argue we just click and share laughter I know it's wrong but I have fallen in love I have :rolleyes: :confused: not told him that what should I do!:confused:

What should you do? Stop seeing him. He's married. That means off limits. And it sounds like you're just coming out of a bad relationship. Take some "me time," read books, watch TV, enjoy your hobbies, maybe find some new ones. There's plenty of other things you can do to take your mind of your separation.

By the way, please re-read your post before you actually post it. I had to read yours about three times before I had any clue what you were saying. Thanks

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Originally Posted by busitbaby

I am seeing a married man which we new for at least eight years. know he use too like me in high school and i never was interested. in him well one night we both winded up at a club too which neither one of us should have been there. we for someone reason noticed each other and it has been on and poppin know for 21/2 months. know and still strong we have the greatest sex and often use the word love, but i am married and separated infect we got married to our spoused two weeks apart. I am thinking this was fate while i look for a new and better guy to keep my mind off of him, but i can't my husband and i are not gonna resolve things he's hurt me too much. This guy cares about me i am no dummy i know what could happen and don't believe married men leave their wives but I really dig this guy and trust what he says he hangs out with me and everything, I believe he tries to get caught sometimes i am so crazy about him he often asks me why did'nt i do this years ago he said we might not have married the people were with we never argue we just click and share laughter i know it's wrong but i have fallen in love I have :rolleyes: :confused: not told him that what should I do!:confused:

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The fact that you are asking could be because you feel guilty about this relationship, if God (religion) considers something to be wrong, it means it is wrong and it will never, bring real hapiness to any one! Yes you may enjoy time and sex with the guy now, but this is peasure (temporary) but not happiness. Permanent happiness comes only when we know we are doing the right thing and feel comforable with our consiousness. If you were his wife, would you like him to cheat on you?
Solution - if really really he loves you and his relation with his wife is finished, he should first divorce her and marry you, if he is just playing around with you to enjoy sex, then he will not be ready to divorce his wife, then you have to leave him (if you do so for God sake, I am sure God will give you a better alternative, just keep faith in him!

Divorce your spouses, and get it on, you two cheaters deserve each other, but don't have to screw up, everyone else's life, while your having that great sex, do you??