I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I've been talking with this guy for awhile and we have both fallen really fast for each other. I think we are both kind of scared. We both have been hurt so many times in the past. I think he might just be that one guy for me. I don't know what it is, but it's this feeling that I get and just know that it would work between us. The only thing is that we are scared of hurting each other and the distance. We live about 45 minutes apart and he works a lot and I'm going to school. So it would be hard. We could work hard at it though, right, and still have things work out? What do you think?

What is your question should you get married? If so the answer is NO. If your question is should you two date each other I don't see why not.

If you were hurt and he was hurt then you have something you both know you do not want to go through again so together I think it can work better than many relationships where they think nothing of hurting each other.

It's all going to boil down to chemistry; meet him first and make this post again. Relax, look at it like you're making a new friend and HAVE FUN.

Love,
healer