Why is everything more important than spending time with Me?
He used to be fabulous.
We're approaching our 4th year of marriage, and man has he changed.
I do all the shopping (food, clothes, hardware stuff, everything), I do all the cleaning, I do the finances, I do everything!
He just lounges around and does whatever he wants.
Now, he finds an excuse to go out almost every night! O I have to go do this, o I have to see my friend for this, o my friend's playing at a bar, I need to go see.
Can I go with him? No
Can he come home and spend an evening with me? Not without a fight and me practically begging.
He thinks spending time together is watching TV together, or hanging time with other people together.
We've had countless discussions where I tell him, I need time to talk to him about anything - without external distraction - it simply doesn't happen.
He doesn't care to spend time with me anymore.
We don't shop together, we don't go anywhere together... he'd much rather do things alone.
I don't want a room mate,. I want a husband.
We talk about it and he says that's not what we are... but I explain it is.
He says he'll spend more time with me, but when in the world is that going to happen!
He has a fantastic job, we live in a great place... what could have changed?
Why why why? I'm going to go crazy.
I hate coming home to an empty house - thank god the dog is here -
I told him I can't be alone all the time - I just can't handle it - does he care?
What should I do?? How do I slap him sensless and let make him wake up!!
Im tired of waiting around for him.
I don't even care for I'm to come home anymore and just prance around - he won't even pick up after himself.
I need advice.
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