A friend of mine was recently divorced (not his choice, but he didn't fight it) and jumped into a relationship 3 months before the divorce was even final. About two months ago, after his new girlfriend moved into his house after 4 months of dating, I found out he's cheating on his new girlfriend. :eek: I'm not friends with him anymore (his dumba$$ choice) and I don't really like his new girl, but I feel horrible for not telling her. She's not working and living off him like a succubus, but she doesn't deserve being cheated on. Should I tell her?
Any help would be appreciated, thank you.

In my psychology class (30 students maybe more) everyone always has a story, and a lot of students tell the story about someone getting a divorce and remarrying or dating right after. They say it's common for most people do this, and maybe it's his way of coping with what happen to him.

If you are friends with this girl (really good friends or becoming good friends) you should tell her what's going on. If you continue to be her friend, and she finds out about her cheating partner; she might be more upset with you then him.

If you don't want to tell her; tell him you will tell her if he doesn't first. Some people might think your being cutt throat or a cheese eater, but I would love it if someone informs me about a situation like this.

Anything can happen while he's cheating, and people forget STDs when there in the zone.

Condom or no condom….. stuff happens.

I do agree with all on this but I can't help think she has aright to know that he's cheating theirs not just std's theirs aids and hep and know body deserves to get any of them no matter what they are doing or have done or even if you don't like her she still has aright

Even if you send her a letter unsigned no one can say it was you

What if she gets pregnant by him its not a great situation to be bringing a child in to

And I agree if it was about revenge you would have told her already and you wouldn't of posted hear for advice you would have just done it

Is she sure he's cheating or does she just think he is?

Let's leave it at I saw something I really wish I hadn't seen.

Then tell her.

If your not friends with him anymore and you don't really like her why are you worried about it.

I reckon let it be , why stress yourself out over other peoples problems.

They sound like they deserve each other.

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If your not friends with him anymore and you don't really like her why are you worried about it.

I reckon let it be , why stress yourself out over other peoples problems.

They sound like they deserve each other.

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I so wish I could just cut myself off from it! It's just we were friends for so long, even though were not really friends anymore, I worry about him and his little girls.

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She's not working and living off him like a succubus, but she doesn't deserve being cheated on. Should I tell her?

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Friend or no, its not your business. If anything tell him, you know what's going on. Even that may be out of bounds.