I guess after all these years.. I am so trying to be open that I have landed myself in a pickle.. Emoutionally..
My Husband has given me three dates this summer where I can visit my family.. My children play a travel sport that I am not too involved in.( I pack the cooler)
My problem is 1) I hate where we are living and would enjoy taking the summer to do the things I enjoy 2) No commitments during the summer free to do as we want = no school with the kids 3) I LOVE TO TRAVEL.. explore..
My husband signed the kids up for travel sports and I have absolutely no time to do the things I enjoy. 5 days a week- weekends during season are from 8 am - 8 pm till they lose. Sat & Sun. the kids really enjoy it.. so I have supported and allowed this to continue. However, on the days they are home they are so tired from training and playing they like to sit around making it close to impossible to get them to a muesum or zoo etc.. They complain and its like pulling teeth.
I am considering a Divorice because I feel I would actually get to spend more time with kids. Its depressing me and with counseling I am realizing "What a crappy marriage I have. "
15 years later, it's a tuff thing with my daughter heading into High School and all her emoutions. I have put up with this kicking and screaming and honestly no change.
(Yes the kids love this) Does this mean I am committed for the rest of the time we have with them?
I am so fed up: My husband is giving me three dates this year that they are not playing and have the ability to see family in another state. Early June - but the cousin do not get out of school until middle June so it's a complete waste of time with all the test and end of the year activities we rarly had the opportunity to see them.
July after the fourth for 6 days and 3 out of the 4 cousins have their own tournments during this time. Aug. seems to work. However, I formly went with my children for the summer and now the last three years are a nightmare? This is ridiculous to me- I have to wait till the end of summer a week before they get back at school.
I have been going to counseling to see if its me who is selfish or should I expect better compromises from my husband.. What do you think?