How embarrassing

Basically when I kiss a girl and generally become a tad excited I release a semen like fluid even when the penis is flaccid...

Is this normal or... is this a stupid question

It is quite normal and not a stupid question. It is called pre-ejaculate and meant to be a lubricant.

So even when in the most flaccid of states?

Thanks very much, you really have given me peace of mind

Well, yes, soccer soviet, you are going to be arroused, so yes even in most flaccid state.

That's called Pre

I have the samething as you soccer soviet... I didn't know if it was normal or not so I was a little concerned lol... but I have it come out; when I'm hard as well as flaccid...

You get pre-mature ejaculation.

Suppose this reiterates the previous answers. It is totally possible, reasonable, and likely that some fluid will expel when you are excited. This is a physiologically normal male response to stimulation, even when flaccid.