I Am A 40 Yr Old Male,and I Am A Crossdresser.now Divorced Most Ladys I Date Think I Am Not Normal,is There Anything Wrong With Me Crossdressing?hope Someone Can Help,as I Need Close Friends.

There is nothing wrong with you. Many of my female friends like cross dressers. I wish you luck finding someone who is more open minded.

No there is nothing wrong with you.

It's just some women would probably associate that with being gay, and that might scare them. But there are plenty of women who will accept it! Just keep looking, and definitely be honest about it. Best of luck!

You are a normal cross dresser. That does not mean that you are "normal" to the women that you date if they have never dated a cross dresser. Different people have different beliefs about what is normal.

The purpose of dating is to find someone who is compatible with your chosen life style. Not to be what other's consider "normal" or in the majority. If the women you date are uncomfortable with it, they are not right for you. You are to be rewarded for your honesty with them about your desires. That is far better than hiding it from them and keeping it in the closet so to speak.

I think that if you haven't told the woman and she just find you in women's clothes she won't react nicely, but if you tell her before hand then she undertsand a bit more because not all woman are going to think your normal if you're a cross dresser...

All you have to do in order to maintain good ethics/morality is to make sure anyone you date knows about your sexual desires before that person has sexual relations with you. That is the cut-off point. Never get physical with anyone who doesn't know your sexual preferences. :)

Many people have sexual quirks and fetishes. There are plenty of individuals who will enjoy sexual relations with you; you don't have to trick anyone.