How can I hold my family together my husband has had 10 years of life with me and has told me unless I change my attitude he will take my beatifull boys and laeave me what can I do to prevent this please I love my kids and husband to bits

You said in the subject line that your mum has just died, then your question has a completely different question. What is going on? By law, your husband can not just take your boys and leave. That is called kidnapping. There is a process that needs to take place before anything happens.

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Originally Posted by pastygirl

how can i hold my family together my husband has had 10 years of life with me and has told me unless i change my attitude he will take my beatifull boys and laeave me what can i do to prevent this please i love my kids and husband to bits

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Like yourself I to have just suffered a great loss my partner I am also really struggling hope you find the strength love my heart goes out to you and your family x

I hope you see that the only person that can help you with this matter is you no one here will know exactly what you can do to keep him and your kids. Understand that no matter what happens be there for him and help him understand and see that he couldn't be without you show him who he fell in love with and if he wants you to straighten yourself up then you should because he is only trying to help you become a better person and he is only trying to make your marriage better and make things better for your kids men will never stop trying to make things better its what they do just stick with him no matter where it takes you because if you really love him and your kids then it shouldn't matter if you end up living in a cardboard box or if your living on the street. Just remember for every thing that goes wrong there is always something to help make it better understand that the only thing that can fix this is you love for all of then don't be afraid to show it and don't be afraid of anything bad happening because when you become afraid is when you begin to give up and if that happens everything will go down hill and you won't have the energy to climb back up just be there for him do what he wants because he's not asking for much and show your love and show your desire and passion for him and the kids and things will get better I will pray for you and I send my best wishes to you I hope things get better for you

HANG IN THERE!!