Ask Me Help Desk - Should I tell him how I feel!

I met this guy awhile ago which I really liked he was seeing someone at the time.He liked me too but I guess it was the wrong time. Anyway months later I him telling him I liked him without telling him who I was. He got really mad at me which I can understand.I tried to explain at the time but it seemed nothing came out the right way. Anyway he told me If I had just called him he would have talked to me. Well months later we have not spoken and feel really bad that I never explained the whole situation. I was afraid to get hurt. It took me 2 years to get someone I really loved before him. Actually I never liked anyone this much in about 6 or 7 years. SO my question is should I try to contact him and tell him how I feel about him and explain the whole. Should I risk it. What ever comes out of it is fine. I just don't want to regret it. I had liked someone years before him that I never went for and regretted it very much.. Don't want to make the same mistake.. What should do.
Thank you to all.

Tell him how you feel. He hasn't spoken to you in months so either the both of you are going to continue not speaking to each other or You will start speaking again and maybe more!

Good Luck

Personally I think you want to say something to him any way, and you should to get it off your chest, and stop obsessing about "what if". But be prepared, it still may not make any changes, or you get the outcome you want.

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Originally Posted by katie222

Should I risk it.

Risk what?

Tell him how you feel and if nothing comes of it so be it and you will have your answer , nothing ventured nothing gained.

Good Luck!

Since you said the first time you tried to explain and nothing came out right, maybe you should write him a letter. This would give you more time to prepare. It sounds as if there's some misunderstanding between you two, so settle your thoughts and write coherently. He'll also be able to go over your letter as many times as he needs to.

And I'll be honest, I'm personally a sucker for handwritten letters.

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Originally Posted by katie222

I met this guy awhile ago which I really liked he was seeing someone at the time.He liked me too but I guess it was the wrong time. anyway months later I him telling him I liked him without telling him who I was. he got really mad at me which I can understand.I tried to explain at the time but it seemed nothing came out the right way. Anyway he told me If I had just called him he would have talked to me. Well months later we have not spoken and feel really bad that I never explained the whole situation. I was afraid to get hurt. It took me 2 years to get someone I really loved before him. Actually I never liked anyone this much in about 6 or 7 years. SO my question is should I try to contact him and tell him how I feel about him and explain the whole. Should I risk it. What ever comes out of it is fine. I just don't want to regret it. I had liked someone years before him that I never went for and regretted it very much..Don't want to make the same mistake..What should do.
Thank you to all.

Just go for it, don't think about it so hard. Follow your heart and u will never regret it. A good idea may be to write to him about your feelings rather than face to face. A letter is more personal than a phone call anyday and also gives him time to mull over and pick it up again and again... just pour your heart and sincerity in the letter!