Do I Actully Need Him?
All I Do Is Think About Him And Ring Him But Then He Will Treat Me Like ! He Will Do Something Too Hurt Me Yet I Forgive Him Even Though I Shouldn't!
I Don't No How To Just Get Him Out Of My Head The Worst Thing Is I Tried Staying Away From Him But He Just Live Round The Coner From Me So I Still Saw Him All The Time! I Think SomeTimes He Does It Too See How Far He Can Push Me And How Much He Can Get Away With And I Still Take Him Back!
I Just Don't Have The Strength Too Say no Too Him
He Had A Girlfriend A Few Months Ago And He Was Still Coming Round Mine And In The End He Dumped er Because I Told Him I Want Him Back But Then He Will Sleep With Me And That's IT!
I Really Don't No Wat Too Do!

You need to stop letting him use you like a door mat your not doing yourself any favours hear letting him come round have sex and then go again then saying something horrible to you he's using you for sex and blokes love girls like you letting them treat you like dirt

Grow up and get real you need to stand up for yourself or ALL men will treat you the same because they know you will take them back no matter what they do

So what he lives round the corner,if he calls round don't open the door to him if he ring's you don't awnser the phone

Start NO CONTACT,NO CALLS,NO NOTHING

He's only treating you this way because he knows you'll let him
He's getting a free ride and he doesn't care how much he's hurting you he doesn't care that you have feelings

So grow up,get with reality and get rid,stand up for yourself and say NO

[[NEVER MIND YOU'VE NO ENERGY ITS TAKES NO ENERGY TO SAY NO]]
ITS JUST YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM HOW SAD THAT YOUR LETTING THIS BLOKE TAKE THE P**S OUT OF YOU AND USE YOU LIKE A DOOR MAT BECAUSE YOU'VE NOT GOT THE ENERGY TO SAY NO

I'VE NEVER HERD SO MUCH BULL

[I'M SORRY FOR BEING SO BLUNT BUT ITS TRUE AND THEN YOU COME ON HEAR FOR AN OPINION ON WEATHER OR NOT YOU ACTUALLY NEED HIM I THINK YOU KNOW THE AWNSER BUT DON'T WANT TO ADMIT TO YOURSELF THAT ITS ALL YOUR FAULT THAT HE'S TREATING YOU THIS WAY]

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO YES YOU DO

1, DUMP HIM
2,DON'T HAVE ANY CONTACT AFTER YOU DUMP HIM
3,GO OUT AND FIND A NICE BLOKE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE
4,START TO LOVE YOURSELF BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T NOBODY ELSE WILL
5,STAND UP FOR YOURSELF GIRL DON'T BE USED AS A DOOR MAT

COOKIE MONSTER

Thanks for the blunt advise and before I meet him I used to be like that with all my friends and didn't understand how they let their boyfriend treat them like !

But there's one thing I idnt add when I posted that question is that I just found out I am pregnant!

So this makes thing more compicated!

X

Everyone deserves respect, but beyond all, you have to respect yourself.

So no, yoyu are pregnant, that does not change one thing, he is still a jerk who will now most likely treat you worst or even dump you and then just come back once in a while for some "baby momma sex"

You have to do what is right for you, you don't need anyone in your life like this person

Just because you have followed your heart, and gotten used, and abused, and pregnant, doesn't mean you have to be stuck on stupid forever, does it? Make some changes, and be sure to get court ordered child support, for the child, and you still don't have to be stupid, with him any longer. You can change for the better.

Hun I'm asingle parent and I get by,my eldest sons dad is afool I found out he was smoking weed near myson I found a burn hole on mysons jumper,so I stopped contact you and others mite not think that was fare but their was other reasons like myson would play up really badly when he came home[he would be fine if he didn't see him for the weekend]their was afew more but ill not go into them but that was the main reason
My youngests dad didn't want anything to do with him at all [he wasn't planned we used condom and I was on the pill] he offered me the cash to abort but I couldn't live with myself if I did,he's never seen him and he doesn't want to.

But I get on well without their help and mysons are better off without them,yeah theirs afew stressful moments like when they've both got bugs or colds but every parent has them being asingle parent or not

Being pregnant doesn't make things complicated at all
You just have to make the decision if your keeping the baby do you want him in both your's and your baby's life?