Hi, your probably sick of answering this question, but I'm so so low.

I've just benn dumped after 5y years, out the blue, so confused

I'm still so in love!
Can't talk to my friends, really. Theyr not very sensitive,whereas I am deeply sensitive.

I'm in a world of pain.
Hurts so bad. Can Anyone say anything to help, cheer me up, I'm desperate. Thanks

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It might be a good turn from the view point of long term for you. If everything is well, people would be together. Love is not only meeting the right person, but also at the right time and right place.
Don't be too sad. Rainbow will always appear after storms. Many people experience the same thing.

Will it help you to tell more about your situation? There are a lot of members here that can give comfort and advice if they know more of what you are dealing with, and maybe it will help you to write it out

What could it be, that broke up a 5 year relationship, clear out of the blue?

While we wait for the updated information, here's the generic nitty gritty you can expect to hear a lot of, because it's true.

This happens to everybody, everybody's been there, everybody will be there. You're not alone.

Don't expect it to be a quick process, you're going to be miserable today, tomorrow doesn't look so good either.

Don't put your ex on a pillar. They're just as human as you, and they're suffering too.

Don't let your imagination run away with you, don't obsess over what's going on in their life, yours is the one that sucks now, so do what you can to fix that for yourself.