I'm too scared to date so I stay home all day, and never have any fun. One reason why I don't date is... I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend. It's been awhile since we broke up, but I can't get him out of my system (first love). Plus I don't want to lead anyone on. Another reason why I don't date is... dating leads to sex, and I don't want to have sex with every guy I date. You have to make the right decision about who you want to have sex with. If I make the wrong decision then I have to add that person to my list (sexual partner list).

You sound like you have a good head on your shoulder with regards to sex, but there is nothing wrong with going out and meeting people. You don't have to sleep with every guy you meet, that's your decision and a very good one I might add. It's time to get over your ex and start dating again. Maybe you know a friend that could set you up? You don't have to get serious with anyone, just go out and have fun. Life is to short to sit around feeling sorry for yourself, you've only got one shot, so go out and live.